About HowYouLoveMe

HowYouLoveMe is a relationship reflection tool. We help couples and partners understand how they give and receive love by comparing connection styles side by side.

How It Works

1. Create a session and invite your partner(s) via email or a shareable link.
2. Rank your connection styles by dragging and dropping eight styles (like Verbal Encouragement, Helpful Actions, and Emotional Openness) in order of what matters most to you.
3. Reflect on your relationship by answering questions about your attachment patterns, how your partner gives and receives love, and how you show up for them. Score each style 0-10 and explain in your own words.
4. Go deeper into emotional safety, how you recover from conflict, appreciation, and future goals together.
5. See your results and compare rankings and scores side-by-side with radar charts, then generate AI-powered insights tailored to your unique dynamic.

Our Mission

We believe that understanding each other is the foundation of every strong relationship. HowYouLoveMe gives partners a structured, judgment-free space to reflect on how they connect and where they can grow.

What We Are Not

HowYouLoveMe is not a substitute for professional counseling, therapy, or mental health treatment. Our AI-generated insights are for reflection only. If you or your partner need support, please reach out to a licensed professional.

Contact

Have questions or feedback? Reach us at contact@howyouloveme.com.